The problem isn't that we look down on you, the problem is that you need to grow up.
Build-Your-Own Calendar with this design.
It takes courage to let go of the things you can't change. Consider that a warning.
Our burden is to take bold, dramatic actions. Should those fail, your burden is to suffer bold, dramatic consequences.
Those who demand we all do more with less somehow always end up on the more side of the ledger.